We’ve all played the victim at one time or another in our lives, and if done too much it can become habit forming. When growing up, we experienced victimization with our parents, our teachers, and our government. Then as adults, we had kids, and we become victims to their ill emotions and verbal abuse. We tell them how much they hurt us. We cry in front of them. And we create the child victim. Our children then become the victims to their parents. They become the victim at school and on the streets. It’s a vicious cycle that needs to be broken.
Sometimes it takes our stepping back and looking deeply into ourselves to see if we’re still playing the victim in our household. If we’re always acting like we’re hurt, we need to change it. If our parents played the roles with us, we need to recognize this, and reverse the pattern. We don’t want to turn our children into society’s victims. Victims end up in prison, the morgue, and worse. Crying wolf too many times.
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